New haven ct gay clubs

Gay experience in New Haven? (appointed, neighborhoods, university)

 

10-15-2009, 03:46 PM
 

Location: New Haven

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I moved to Modern Haven this summer and I am trying to uncover out where the gay groups, organizations, and neighborhoods are. I am bitterly disappointed. I can't seem to spot them and, on top of that, this city is SERIOUSLY lacking. But for Yale University, this city is a one horse town.

Don't thought the rant - I am forced to stay here for the next year or so, so I am really trying to make the finest of it. I am receptive to all and sundry suggestions, opinions, ideas, etc.

Lots of very bright people read this board - that means YOU and YOU and, yes, YOU! Please help!

 

10-15-2009, 05:06 PM
 

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Actually there us more then meets the eye- there are some great clubs in New Haven. If you pick up Metroline -one of the nations oldest LGBT publications- there is lots of information on Movie festivals, social clubs,

OT: Best Dive Bars in CT

The essence of a dive bar
So what is a real dive? That's a question I've been asking myself a lot lately. Let's start with the basics. Dive bars usually have more than one existence. Their first is as a tavern, mom-and-pop shop, roadhouse, speakeasy, juke mutual, nightclub, honky tonk, club, lounge, pub, beer hall, fern bar, gay exclude, Tiki joint, inn, or saloon. At some point in time, unforeseen circumstances lead to compromises in upkeep, inventory, and clientele. This can occur adv or swiftly, but the consequences are lasting. Often it is the outcome of changes occurring in the neighborhood in which the bar is situated, but many a dive was borne of divorce, health crises, or legal judgments. If you still need assist discerning the relative divey-ness of a watering hole, I've worked up a short list of questions suitable for printing and laminating.

Did everyone in the place look you over when you walked through the door?
Might be a dive.
Is there a kitchen serving food from a menu?
Not a dive.
Are security camera monitors positioned behind the bar?
Might be a dive.
Are the mirrors, windows, and floor clean?
Not a dive.
Do you get the sense that

Counter Memories

It is a building that looks like it is hiding. Some windows are blurred with frosted glass. Others are boarded up. The walls are painted an aged white, peeling at some parts. On the side of the building, a tiny, orange sign names the building: Partners. Underneath a piercing streetlight, just next to the mural of a smiling Anne Frank, a man stands by himself, a lit cigarette in his mouth. Nothing on the outside reveals that the building is one of the oldest same-sex attracted bars in New Haven.

On Fridays and Saturdays, Partners opens its second floor to reveal a glittery night club. There, mirrors cover the walls and a spinning light shines on adolescent, dancing bodies in the black. Those are the endless nights—loud and hazy and crowded. On Sundays, the second floor closes, leaving the ground floor uncover for karaoke night. It draws in a smaller crowd. Now, it’s Monday night in February and the bar is barren—except for Paul, me, and two drunk men. The two men had waited outside the bar’s front door before he’d arrived. Now, they sit at the counter with me, babbling over each other. They interrupt Paul while he talks to me, asking for another drink. Paul leaves to fill up their sh

"I'm Not Going Anywhere"

 

Joey Goodwin: “I didn’t sell to Yale to surrender. I sold to Yale because I reflect they’re good for the City of New Haven.” Lucy Gellman Photos.

168 York Street Cafe survived a fire, a move, multiple owners and a mention change. It survived the AIDS crisis. It lived to see the finish of disco and the beginning of drag in New Haven. Now, even though its longtime owner has sold the building to Yale University, the beloved neighborhood bar once nicknamed “The Gay Cheers” still isn’t going anywhere.

Joseph "Joey" Goodwin drove that message home on a recent evening at 168 York Street Cafe, as he spoke about the history, legacy and future of New England’s longest-running gay bar and the building in which it is located. After 28 years as owner, Goodwin and his business boyfriend Mary Tirozzi sold the building to Yale University for $2.85 million last week. The building is also home to Salon J and a number of apartments.

“When I bought the building, I knew that I was going to sell it,” he said in an interview at the bar, as plates of salads, piping hot wings, burgers, and salt-dusted fries came out from the kitchen. “That wa