Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve position together a beginner’s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you want to initiate squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the act of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline resolution into the rectum to clean it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to achieve this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s known as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often enter with a medicated solution to soften stools or leverage a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys like to douche because it reassures them of no surprises when it comes to hooking up. But for those who keep a fibre-rich diet and guzzle plenty of
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Douching: Go with the Flow
The butt is a glorious avenue for sexual pleasure, though the butt is also great for eliminating waste (try as we might to not think about it). Douching involves using water to flush out your ass of any waste to prepare yourself for anal sex. For folks who bottom, douching is one of the ways to unmistakable your insides to get ready for ass play.
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Types of Douches
There are many different types of douches ready out there. With different pros and cons people tend to have a favorite but each is best suited to a different scenario.
Shower douche: A shower douche or shower shot is an attachment that connects directly to your shower hose. Favored by pro bottoms everywhere, a shower douche can be a immediate and efficient way to scrub out right in the shower. Shower douches also come with valves that regulate the moisture pressure for safety. Start at a l
Douching
At a very young age we are taught to dispose of shit neatly and we are not encouraged to talk about one of life’s messy taboos. And yet, while the anal area exemplifies – for some – everything that’s dirty and unclean, it is also one of the most sensitive and enjoyable parts of the body. Consequently, for many of us, shit is not something we deal with very well, although many of us have had to come to terms with shit as the arse plays such key role in the sex we have. There’s probably been a time in our lives when we contain shit ourselves during sex or seen our companion do the same. How we deal with the situation can make or break that hot date!
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