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What Gay Men Should Expect in a Relationship
Some gay men put up with a lot in their relationships. Their long-term partners will aggressively flirt with other men in front of them, go home with a guy from the bar without any forewarning, rest with ex-lovers without gaining consent from their current boyfriend, or brag to their current boyfriends about the quality of their sex with strangers. Ouch.
Here’s what I uncover most concerning. Some gay men don’t feel they contain a right to be upset about these behaviors. They’ll ask me why they feel so jealous and how can I aide them let leave of their resentment. They think that the gay society believes in sexual freedom and it isn’t cool or manly to argue against to their partner’s sexual behavior.
In other words, they experience shame for experiencing hurt by the actions of their long-term partners.
Heterosexual couples get plenty of social support for treating their partners with respect when it comes to sex. Outrage is the typical social response when friends are told about poor relationship action among straight people. When gay men tell the alike heartbreaking stories they are less likely to get a big response. LGBTQ
What Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his research into what straight women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next logical step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and draw out a genuine list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the gay and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities display in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The matching comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
What gay and bi men say they want
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Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to gay guys
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Got it, so it does sound like a big part of this simply has to do with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you find attractive.
When you want to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be able to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you say this happens when you see pretty gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who glance a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you see these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to think about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific group (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.
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