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I'm a Woman Who's Sleeping With a Gay Male (Yes, He's Still Gay)
For the past year, I’ve been having regular sex with a gay dude I'll call Oliver. We were best friends for years, attending many Movement parades and taking weekend hiking trips. But last year, after a very drunken night, we slept together—and we still are today. He maintains that he still is, and always has been, a gay man.
After the first time, we were predictably awkward and British about it. We laughed a bit that it had happened, and then we agreed we shouldn’t complete it again.
That lasted maybe three days. The first few months had all the expected exciting parts of sleeping with your best bud, but they were also tinged with this brand new fresh thing. Oliver had never been with a lady before, and he was completely unaware of what a vulva or a clitoris was. Fortunately, Oliver had the benefit of my feminist Orgasm Gap rants over the past five years, and took to the task of making me come with admirable tenacity. One of the sweetest moments of that year was result the book She Comes First on his bedside table.
Men I’ve slept with before often have this false bravado around sex, like they need
ByRickClemons for YourTango.com
We've all had the regrettable one blackout stand. But can you picture organism stuck in a never-ending one? That's just hell.
Imagine: You. A drunken overnight. Not being proficient to find your purse or wallet, not being proficient to get rid of whoever it is that's laying half naked, sound asleep in bed next to you. That spiraling madness is a existence for the characters in Stuck, a quirky, weird, yet surprisingly realistic one-night-stand-gone-wrong new romantic comedy by Stuart Acher. It made me pause and wonder, "What the hell would I execute if this were my reality?"
Gay, vertical or bi, we've all been pressured by our overactive brains (or nether regions) to pursue out sex. Don't shake your head; you know you've been there and done that — that, being a one night remain that you later regret.
Whether you locate yourself stranded in a Los Angeles traffic jam, love Guy and Holly, Stuck's main characters, did; or, God forbid, you cease up seated next to last night's fling, on a non-stop, 14-hour flight (as yours truly did once), or you just can't kick them out of bed speedy enough, you include to wonder, "How did I finish up here on my search for love?" Whether or you we
Gay Men in Open Relationships: What Works?
Hint: It will take a lot of work.
As a couples counselor working with gay men I am often asked my opinion on monogamy and uncover LGBTQ relationships. What works for men in long-term relationships? First, the research.
Several research studies display that about 50% of queer male couples are monogamous and about 50% allow for sex outside of the relationship. The research finds no difference in the level of happiness or stability among these groups.
Next, my opinions and advice, based on my therapy practice.
Talk About It Openly With Your Partner
If you and your partner want to have a close relationship and have additional sex partners, be prepared for a lot of talking. And I’m not just referring to discussions about when, where and with whom. I mean talking about feelings, what we therapists call “processing.”
If that kind of conversation makes you squirm, I understand. Most men are not socialized to hug the sharing of intimate and vulnerable emotions. However, if you aren’t willing to experiment with processing then I suspect the closeness of your relationship may be limited, and you guys could be headed for
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