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I grew up in a highly religious, homophobic environment. I found it incredibly difficult to love myself for a myriad of reasons; one of which was because I knew I wasn't straight. My Dad comes from a country where queer people receive abused, arrested or killed; as their former president once vowed to "cut the head off of homosexuals" in the country and said that all gay people must leave the territory within 24 hours. My Dad has always been a very kind and loving person, until the topic of queer people is brought up. My Mom comes from a Jehovah's Witness family, so there isn't any more acceptance on that side either. I still haven't initiate the courage to come out to my family.
Growing up, it seemed as though everyone around me was homophobic, so I was homophobic too because I hated myself and thought that I could never let anyone recognize about my sexuality. I wanted to be the flawless, religious, straight, masculine person my family expected me to be. However, I reached a breaking point in my early 20s where I felt appreciate I couldn't pay my entire existence pretending to be something I'm not.
I came out of the closet to my best ally in 2017 via text message. He thought I was jok
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Ali Forney was a gender-nonconforming youth forced to exist on the streets at 13. Ali took pride in educating people in HIV prevention and safe sex. Ali was also a vocal advocate for the investigation of homeless queer youth murders.
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[Review] Sadiq Ali’s The Chosen Haram – queer connection at ten feet
Matthew Paluch sees Sadiq Ali’sThe Chosen Haram in London
| Title | The Chosen Haram |
| Company | Sadiq Ali |
| Venue | The Place, London |
| Date | 9 February 2023 |
| Reviewer | Matthew Paluch |
Forbidden is an interesting word. What exactly? Why? And for who in particular… so of course the forbidden makes an interesting premise for a work.
The Chosen Haram (meaning forbidden) by Sadiq Ali has a short, two-performance run at The Place (February 8/9) looking at subject matter close to Ali’s control reality.
Ali is gay, (ex) Muslim and HIV positive. Life is complicated for many, but that’s quite a lot for one person to handle – no matter how resilient.
Ali wrote a piece in The Metro (2021) in his own words, which was primarily about his status being outed during his study time at the National Centre for Circus Arts. He recounts how his classmates literally began to physically distance themselves from him. Their fear of infection manifesting. As they sadly knew no better about workable, or rather not, transmission risks.
But resilience prevailed, and he in turn school
Pride: Ali's story
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Ali hid his sexuality from his family for years; only coming out to them two years ago. Worried about the impact that revealing he was gay would have on his family’s standing within their Muslim Pakistani community, Ali even went so far as to commit a lesbian from the same culturalbackground. But, he says, he was living a lie on top of a lie and it put immense pressure on him.
“So you’re gay and you’re not telling your family and you’re keeping that to yourself. Then you’ve got this bigger lie keeping up this false marriage as well. So it’s always a difficult balancing act.”
He attended his first Pride event with the Yorkshire Terriers - the local LGBT football team which he unified in 2004. But, by 2005, he wasn’t just attending Pride, he was running it. As the social secretary for the Terriers, Ali was approached to help put up the first ever Leeds Identity festival by Yorkshire MESMAC and with the help of his hard work, it has grown from 300 people to 55,000 strong.
He connected Yorkshire MESMAC’s board of trustees and two months ago became a group development worker for their Total Men’s Health Project, funded by Comic Relief. Ali wor